What does it mean to call someone a friend? How are friendships different from other types of relationships? This discussion-based literature and film course will explore these questions through a study of short stories, novels, and films that consider the meaning of friendship, including the films Thelma and Louise (1991), The Banshees of Inisherin (2022), and Frances Ha (2012). While philosophers, psychologists, and sociologists have long recognized the importance of friendship for human happiness, romantic partnerships and parent-child relationships often receive more attention as formative relationships in people’s lives than the bonds between friends.Â
Through discussions of literature, film, and supplementary readings, we will consider questions such as: How do our friendships enrich and complicate who we are as individuals? How do people become friends, and why are some people better at making friends than others? What makes certain friendships last a lifetime and others fall apart? Why is the pain of losing a friend often less acknowledged than the pain of losing a partner or a family member? What are the ethics of ending a friendship? How does friendship offer alternatives to biological notions of family? And what would it mean for societies to recognize friendship, rather than marital or kinship bonds, as the defining relationships in people’s lives?
Books to purchase:
Ferrante, Elena. My Brilliant Friend (2011)
Matar, Hisham. My Friends (2024)
Nunez, Sigrid. The Friend (2018)
New Participant: $140.00
Returning Participant: $200.00
Day: Thursdays
Time:Â 6:15 to 8:15 PM
Location:Â 3405 Atwater, Montreal
Course leaders: Valerie Amyot, Imogen Brian, Louise Jarrett
First session:Â September 18 2025
Course length: 12 weeks
Degree credit: 3 credits
Maximum number of participants: 18
Please note that the Thomas More Institute does not allow participants to audit courses for free.
About the Thomas More Institute: The Thomas More Institute has been providing adults with stimulating lifelong learning opportunities in Montreal since 1945. A secular and non-profit academic institution, TMI offers an ever-evolving choice of university-level courses in the liberal arts, including discussion-based courses, lecture-style courses, writing workshops, and more. Our courses are held in small groups, offering an alternative learning environment to that of traditional university courses. You can take individual courses that interest you, or work toward a structured bachelor of arts degree or comprehensive certificate that involve additional coursework. Share Your Curiosity at TMI!
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Leaders of another course, and anyone else wishing to register by phone, should call (514) 935-9585 to register.
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